LOVE, MARRIAGE AND THE BIG BROTHER

Hello y’all! Once again I’m really happy to be sending this week’s blog. Men, I feel like I’m writing for royalties to read…lol… believe me, y’all are royalties.

Ok, this week has been so so. A bit of fun and a bit of stress but u know me, I put the fun in the stress and turn it to “funstresstic”. However, I’m so happy that I was able to find time to write a few things. I know I would have stopped this blog thingy ages ago but y’all kept me writing especially Chike who before he opens his mailbox, askes if I have sent it… Thank you. Anyway, here’s this week’s blog enjoy!

What is love? I have asked that question over and over again, (in my mind and pple) I have even posted a scrap on my hi5 page so pple can respond to it. Is it when u have butterflies in your stomach whenever u see your love interest? Wild sex? Maybe it is when you sing or dance for no reason (I know a few people who do this… don’t worry I wont tell) but whatever it is, love means different things to different people and the reaction is quite different.

For some people, the reaction to love is “let’s get married and have children”! To some, “let’s make love to show our love” and some people just go plain crazy and cut up themselves and drink their blood or wear a vial of their blood (Angelina jolie and Billy bob Thornton).

Whatever the reaction, love must not be hurried. I recently heard an old song “ u cant hurry love, u just have to wait…” the song goes on to say that love does not come easy and it is a game of give and take. I absolutely believe this. I mean if it is not meant to happen, it would not happen. You cannot force someone to fall in love with you, u just have to wait for the right kind of love to come ur way and you are made.

I know a lot of you are wondering why Eke is talking about love. Is she in love? Well, I’ll leave y’all to ponder on that and maybe I’ll tell you for a little bribe… lol. Anyway, enough about me. I’m really talking about love because my good friend Henry got married on Saturday. I would love to say that it was a very beautiful wedding but I was not there and I’m sure I missed a lot. I remember when Henry started at Ipml, actually, I came back from NYSC camp and met him. First thot “ who is the cutie”? and today he is getting married… I guess my constant “no” to his advances pushed him to the arms of another woman ( just kidding)… lol. Anyway, Henry is a lovely guy and I wish him well. Ok fellas, Henry is gone (marriage wise) any of you need pointers on how to hook a babe like Henry’s wife, we can talk over a bottle of Vodka and trust me, u’ll be walking off with a total babe the next morning… lol get it?

Love and Big Brother… such a bad combination. A no no if u ask me. Some members of the house think they are falling in love. Y’all know I gas to talk about my Big bro (I’m loving the show and I find myself running home to go watch those housemates… yeah I know I’m boring but hey! That’s me. Anyway, back to my housemates. This chick Lerato thinks she is in love with this bloke called Maxwell (stupid sexist by the way) but the dude does not like her romantically. However, she is really trying to make things work and from the looks of things, it isn’t (u cant hurry love, mama says).

Ok guys, I don try. I wish you all a wonderful week ahead. Stay blessed and peace.

Ciao!